Love Quiz 3

Are You Dating Material?

The most frequent question I am asked is how to find that special love. The good news is that it is very possible to find that special one. The bad news is that you may have to work on some things in yourself before you would even recognize that special someone.  This simple quiz may help you find those things you need to address.

Find a time when you are relaxed and will not be interrupted to review and answer the questions on this self-quiz. You will be more honest in your responses if you don’t share this information with your family, friends, lover, or potential lover. However, it may be a useful discussion tool in a therapeutic environment with a qualified mental health practitioner if that applies to your situation.  Note: This questionnaire is written from a woman’s point of view. Apply the gender reference that applies to you.

1. When was the last time you were in a serious love relationship? If it is less than one year and you have not gotten into therapy of some kind, give yourself more emotional healing time.
2. What kind of relationship did/do you have with the parent of the opposite gender? If the relationship was kind and loving you can proceed, if not you have some internal work to complete.
3. Do you lead an active and happy life? If not, it is important not to put your life on hold waiting for a love relationship to save you. 
4. Do you take good care of your health? If you don’t workout, eat well and see a doctor regularly, you need to pay more attention to yourself before bringing anyone else into the mix.
5. What goals do you have for your life? If your only goal is to snag a lover, you need to rethink this goal. People who are goal-oriented make better partners.
6. Are you a person who is enthusiastic about life? If not, you need to concentrate on becoming a more positive person. Happy people tend to connect with other happy people.
7. What areas of your life do you think need more attention? Give yourself the attention you need before going into the dating arena.

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